She always said, you and your little sister have all these machines to do the work. I spent less time doing the work by hand than you do. We had less stuff. We had enough clothes for 2 changes a week. Each day of the week I did one thing: sewing, knitting, clean house, baking, wash clothes (by hand)/hang dry.
Mom always missed her job as an accountant. But in the 40s in Europe, if your new husband said "quit", you did. She was 25 and still living with her parents as were all her siblings, given the current horror state of the Netherlands immediately post WW2.
Her perspective is interesting. My sister and I agree that we don't understand it because we see her way as harder.