I attended one, and one only, OA meeting. THAT was the deal-breaker for me, the self-abuse language, of how bad and disgusting I am. Good grief, how are people supposed to work through that?
Wow, that is horrible! I had no idea there were OA meetings like that. No one should go to a group that tells them they are bad and disgusting. Is that what happened for you Kay and you Oddhat? that is horrible!