Quote Originally Posted by Alan View Post
No worries, it wasn't a tough childhood, it was an educational and philosophical opportunity to learn how to rise above your surroundings. I feel bad for everyone denied that opportunity.
My MIL used to say, "We were poor but we didn't know it." She never felt self-pity either, and, like Alan, she grew up frugal, resourceful, pragmatic, and grateful as a result of her upbringing. I don't feel sorry for Alan at all. It is apparent that he was poor in material comfort but rich in love. You can get by without material comfort. I feel sorry for the ones rich in material comfort but poor in love.