Quote Originally Posted by happystuff View Post
I post this with all due respect to you:

Why do you assume that those who are doing it - and I'll speak specifically for myself - feel smug and superior????? I don't and that is definitely NOT the point of the responses. Each time, I am responding to a post. Stop/change/modify the posts and the responses will change. It's really that simple. But if you are going to attack or condemn responses, try starting at the beginning with the initial posts and poster.
I don't want to change her posts. She is free to post what she wants to.

My perception of the smug thing is because people seem to pile on, with great relish. That feels unpleasant to me, like bullying in high school. Just my perception, of course.