I'm doing some of the things you mention. I've been car free for the past year. It's worked out fine. I've enjoyed it. I tried going car light for a year before doing it. Since my mom passed away, I will be picking up her car in the near future. It will be nice to have a car with low mileage, that is in excellent condition. Sometimes it's a drag not having a vehicle when I need to go somewhere like the vet, the doctor, or to visit someone several hours away. I've paid friends to take my dogs to the dog kennel, and paid shuttle services to take me to the airport. I've walked my dog to the vet in the hundred degree heat, even though we had the first appt. in the morning. I've learned that I can do it if I have to, but I'd like to have a car for those situations. I will probably still ride the bus most of the time, to save money.
I spend a lot of time with my dogs. I enjoy their company, and we go for walks every day. They spend most of their time sleeping, anyway. I also meditate daily. I've done that for thirty years, though. It's made a big difference in my life. I like having time to read, write, study, and practice my music. Sometimes I get a little lazy. I can take a nap if I'm tired. It's also convenient being able to go to the gym and take advantage of the facilities.
I think whatever makes you happy is best. Many people won't understand what you're doing. They might compare themselves to you, and tell you that you're too extreme. A lot of people get agitated when they find out that I retired early. I read ERE and that inspired me. I don't tell people anymore. I am still auditioning, and would love work in my field, but there are less opportunities for women my age. I still train and prepare, because it challenges and inspires me.




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