Divorced or broken up over SL?

[Ultralight]

So you broke up or just moved out?

[mschrisgo2]

I moved out, he said that meant we broke up. I was just, like, "what--ev--er!!"
As I said, I was totally fed up, with the hoarding, but mostly the attitude- no sharing, no sense of community, etc. That was 20+ years ago, I still see him and extended family around there occasionally, and he has not changed a bit. He's a lot like my mother, who also values "stuff" over people/relationships. I am just the opposite, I'm happiest when I have something that I can share with others.

[Ultralight]

I moved out, he said that meant we broke up. I was just, like, "what--ev--er!!"
As I said, I was totally fed up, with the hoarding, but mostly the attitude- no sharing, no sense of community, etc. That was 20+ years ago, I still see him and extended family around there occasionally, and he has not changed a bit. He's a lot like my mother, who also values "stuff" over people/relationships. I am just the opposite, I'm happiest when I have something that I can share with others.

Thanks for sharing your story. I kind of feel bad for the guy when you describe him in those ways. But it is obviously best that you moved on from him.