Quote Originally Posted by UltraliteAngler View Post
I am not sure she'd consider that a date. Though she'd probably offer to treat me perhaps 25% of the time.

Even if she did pay her own way each time, that would still add up to a good chunk of change for me to pay for myself.
This seems like an excellent arena in which to work out compromises acceptable to both of you, to see if this is going to be a relationship that works for both of you!

One idea is to meet and date in the middle somewhere?

At least you guys can figure out what unspoken assumptions are going on, and whether your assumptions and her assumptions mesh comfortably!