Quote Originally Posted by ApatheticNoMore View Post
I guess I just think trying to find one's soul mate is futile. Yes I may always be single for life, I'm just too weird frankly, but I will try to keep an open mind about it, though I still think if it works it's miraculous (and even finding a person one is physically OR emotionally drawn to and it's mutual isn't that common - much less finding someone one is both physically and mentally drawn to - may as well play the lottery!). So if two people are happier together than apart that's something, yes maybe especially if there is strong chemistry.
ApatheticNoMore:

I totally get this! I have had so many problems in dating and relationships because I am quirky -- very quirky!

I have this theory...

If you could take a big bag, throw the vast majority of couples into it, shake the bag up and dump it out then the couples would be in different configurations but still just as happy with their partners. Why? Because most people are pretty normative.

Now for us quirky folks it is a whole different story.