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    Quote Originally Posted by ApatheticNoMore View Post
    yea the 3k thing sounds really manipulative, if your dad wants to give you a gift of 3k then he should just do that, but gifts don't really have strings (and what weird strings, that your investments must be profitable within 18 months, AS IF that was even in one's control, investments aren't always profitable - in fact sometimes pretty much none of them are as the markets are down - if the bond or stock or whatever market is up and one's fund is still losing money it might be a bad fund but so what, get out of it perhaps, but who hasn't made a dumb investment if they have ever invested anything?).

    If he wanted something sure not to lose money then T-Bills . But as is it's just a weird manipulative gift with strings that is disempowering and reduces one to a child.
    All his gifts come with strings attached, I mean, he gave me a baseball cap last time I was up there and he insisted that I take off the hat I was wearing and put the one he gave me on. It is like in his mind he has done be a favor by giving me this hat and then I have to repay that favor by wearing the hat. It is weird.

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    does your dad try to control everyone, like your mom, too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by UltraliteAngler View Post
    This is what I will do.
    Good. Thats what you should do.

    and be forewarned, you still could lose money. But it is all about the long game.

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    I am also going to change the beneficiary from my sister to a gun control group!

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    Quote Originally Posted by freshstart View Post
    does your dad try to control everyone, like your mom, too?
    He doesn't try to control my mom. He lets people believe whatever they want. Dad is voting Trump. Mom is voting Jill Stein.

    My dad wanted to sell the house, throw everything out, and move to Florida. The dude was dam serious too. But then my mom put that idea down like a sick horse.

    I think that the problem is perhaps one of insight. He does not know who I really am or what I value. He and I just have very different values.

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    I am going to make the Brady Campaign the beneficiary!

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    Just make the beneficiary your future niece/nephew.

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    Quote Originally Posted by merince View Post
    Just make the beneficiary your future niece/nephew.
    Not this time... Since the money was my dad's I am making the beneficiary The Brady Campaign!

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    Ths reminds me that
    i need to make a donatin to the NRA...

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    Quote Originally Posted by iris lilies View Post
    Ths reminds me that
    i need to make a donatin to the NRA...
    You're joking?

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