Found out I am going meet my bio father finally. Been trying since I was 19 years old and led to dead ends going back to the drawing board at first. Has been going well for the last 4 years. I learned he was a great man unlike my mom, he had enough of her heavy drinking and left when I was 5 years old. Worked very well and always found her drunk when he came home from work. Learned I was going as well and that did not end up happening. They were not married at the time when he left. We did speak on the phone today and we have a lot to make up. He just turned 72 on December 2nd and now retired. Learned I am 46 now which I turned on the 3rd.He was great to me and we talked about a few things. One was I informed him he has a part time daughter named Jackie as well, I am a part time crossdresser. He accepted that and I was glad he did this. Told him also he has a 22 year old granddaughter named Marissa turning 23 next month as well. My best Christmas ever,going to meet up on Friday for the first time