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    Found out I am going to meet my bio father finally

    Found out I am going meet my bio father finally. Been trying since I was 19 years old and led to dead ends going back to the drawing board at first. Has been going well for the last 4 years. I learned he was a great man unlike my mom, he had enough of her heavy drinking and left when I was 5 years old. Worked very well and always found her drunk when he came home from work. Learned I was going as well and that did not end up happening. They were not married at the time when he left. We did speak on the phone today and we have a lot to make up. He just turned 72 on December 2nd and now retired. Learned I am 46 now which I turned on the 3rd.He was great to me and we talked about a few things. One was I informed him he has a part time daughter named Jackie as well, I am a part time crossdresser. He accepted that and I was glad he did this. Told him also he has a 22 year old granddaughter named Marissa turning 23 next month as well. My best Christmas ever,going to meet up on Friday for the first time

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    That’s nice, I hope it all goes well.

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    That's huge! Best wishes!
    My therapist told me the way to achieve true inner peace is to finish what I start. So far today, I have finished two bags of M&Ms and a chocolate cake. I feel better already!

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    Quote Originally Posted by KayLR View Post
    That's huge! Best wishes!
    It is and dad was glad I was removed from that being adopted by a loving mom that raised me right with love. I learned my bio mom passed a month after I was removed from the home, alcohol poisoning killed her.

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    Congrats. Hope all goes well.
    To give pleasure to a single heart by a single act is better than a thousand heads bowing in prayer." Mahatma Gandhi
    Be nice whenever possible. It's always possible. HH Dalai Lama
    In a world where you can be anything - be kind. Unknown

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    Update, it went great and we talked about our lives. Told him I went through a tough time in my life last month,laid off at my last work place and start a new job next month. He was glad to hear I moved on with my life. Found out he did find someone new leaving my mom and has been married to her for 37 years which he has 2 daughters with her whom are 39 and 37. Will get to meet them sometime next month. He even asked about my femme side, Jackie which he will be loving and accepting as his part time daughter. Told him that Jackie is nice with a positive attitude in life with a soft side. He will be meeting me dressed as Jackie on Monday.

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    Glad to hear it went well, Jackie. What is his occupation out of curiosity?
    My therapist told me the way to achieve true inner peace is to finish what I start. So far today, I have finished two bags of M&Ms and a chocolate cake. I feel better already!

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    Quote Originally Posted by KayLR View Post
    Glad to hear it went well, Jackie. What is his occupation out of curiosity?
    He was a millright at a shop. He met me dressed as Jackie today and told me I looked beautiful telling him thank you. He saw I was different growing up at age 3.Get to meet his wife and two daughters after Christmas

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