Quote Originally Posted by JackieLN View Post
The harassment my good friend Marissa's brother in law puts my wife and I through. She is few up too with it and sees us like any couple. Wife is a pre op MTF transsexual which she decided not to have the GRS and I see her happy supporting her decision. Marissa sees us like any normal couple and her brother in law Jon is always calling my wife a freak and thinks I am gay which I am not. It is getting to the point Marissa is going to talk to her husband, sister in law and his parents on this soon.
it is too bad you and your wife are getting grief.

I’m kind of surprised you use the term “transsexual “which is seen these days as dated and often offensive. Are you ok with “transgender?” Buck Angel uses “ transsexual” deliberately, but he is an old guy and admits to that.

I guess I would use the term “ trans” if I was in a room with opposite-sex identifying people just to keep it simple and avoid conflict.