What can you do about things that distress you?

[iris lilies]

Find a way to laugh at it, it helps remove some of its power and sting over you, because in the end, life gets the last laugh.

This may not seem like much, but in the absurdity of life (my cancer, working seven days a week, now my main support also going through cancer, the idiot has started having all of his medical and welfare check calls go to me on top of everything), it's the best I can do.

Look, TMS, I am going to speak to you like your mother: you need to say “ No” to these tasks associated with the person you are supporting.
Just. Say. No.

It’s ok to do that. Really.