Quote Originally Posted by RosieTR View Post
If your contact is mostly phone calls and a couple of in-person visits a year, then maybe it would be good to consider moving. It's possible that would actually increase your relationship with them, since if they were visiting you then the ex would presumably not be there also and you would have a large stretch of time together rather than a few hours a few times a year if this is what the situation is currently. You would have to assess your family dynamics as to whether that might improve things or not. As for housing costs, it would totally depend on where you went but unless you're going for high luxury it's probably cheaper than LA area especially outside of the central metro areas of Denver and some of the tony suburbs.
Thanks, our relationship seems to be mostly phone calls and on a good month, maybe a visit for an hour twice a month. I've thought we would actually get along better if I moved too. Less interfercence from my ex. I really appreciate your reply!