I think that they are starting to pick up cold shoulder undertones from me. I did explain to then what was my problem and why I feel what I do, So they are aware. Next whenever my mom complains about the hoard and having to move next year I suggest what my dad can do since he is the man of the house like get an auction company to appraise her things and that will bring her money. I am not offering to come down there anymore, I also dont want any of their stuff. They will have to deal with their own consequences. Yea thats easy to say we will just have to play it by ear.I wont be the good daughter anymore, just the daughter that lives far away like the rest of their friends have.It's something that just clicked in me, when my baby boy was born on my 40th birthday I felt complete and happy with this blessing and time to live my own life and its actually ok to be happy where you are not about when you get the house car and career etc.