Here you have very concisely nailed why so much of America does not work for me - to me, it's not your tab, its OUR tab - our being the collective society as a whole. But I do agree with you on one point - people getting the free insurance like I will be for awhile should have some mandate to eat better and to exerisize. In my case I am mostly vegetarian and I don't have a car - so I am getting a lot of walking in right there. I am aware that not all who qualify for expanded Medicaid are going to be eating well and getting exersize so I do see you have a point in this. I still consider it OUR tab though and not just your tab. This kind of thinking - I believe this is what is going to cause America to sink ever further. And it's sad because most people have thought this way their whole lives - it is unrealistic for this to change. I'm glad change is coming to health care but OTOH I don't have much hope for this country in other areas. The bitter irony in this though is that I have seen what I consider progress in health care and also in gay rights. Rob