If I were to marry say the current BF (who's 10 years younger then me and not anywhere near retirement or quitting his job) I'd have to continue living around here for a couple of more decades for his job and family and, yes, his beloved house, that would kill me. And he really wouldn't want to move out of SoCal anyways (unless it's too Hawaii) as he is a total SoCal surfer volleyball beach boy. If it get colder then 70 he may actually freeze to death (IHHO).
So the guy wants commitment, wants to stay in SoCal, and I don't know if he's my dating age range but it's possible. If you don't want him: send him my way If it gets less than 70 I'll put the heater on for us cause BRRRR