Quote Originally Posted by jp1 View Post
Does he actually spend time enjoying these things, or is it the acquisition itself that he enjoys, and then they just sit there. If he actually does stuff with them I could see him making the argument that he's already having experiences. With his stuff.
Yes. Daily. It's his thing, it's what he enjoys. I'm not trying to take this away from him that would be horrible of me and probably divorce worthy. It's just not my thing therefore I don't completely understand it. In fact the other day I was just encouraging him to get back into giving lessons because he enjoys teaching and is good at it. He didn't have time all the years of our business to do lessons and he hadn't even considered it until I mentioned it. That's got him a bit excited so we'll work up a plan to get a few students. Then he can use that money for his music habit instead of guilting me out of the tight family budget (He is very hard for me to say 'no' to).