Quote Originally Posted by catherine View Post
I think you have to look at the big picture. Some women may very well see red flags if a guy doesn't have a car: i.e. "He's going to be dependent on ME." Sorry, not sure if it's anthropological, but many women do NOT want a guy who's dependent on them for basic things.

OTOH, if a guy is resourceful, and self-reliant, and doesn't have a car on principle but doesn't need one, that's a different situation. I'm thinking of some of my permaculture acquaintances who are 100% in it. I can respect that. I can't muster as much respect for people who find it convenient to "allow" other people to provide for them while they shun the very things they gladly accept--when it suits them. I've known a few of those people, too.
Good points here! When I imagine my car-free life (some day!) I imagine having a Car2Go membership that I rarely use and rarely accepting rides from people. Why? Because I don't like driving or being a passenger. Being a passenger gives me a hint of noticeable anxiety. I trust no one! haha