Quote Originally Posted by Teacher Terry View Post
my happiest level went way up in my early 40's. Kids launched, loving my career, more time to myself, pursue my own interests, not having to put the kids first, etc. Great times & things just keep getting better and better!!!!!!! I also noticed that my Mom and grandparents did not complain about their health or other things. They accepted what was and made the best of what they had. My Dad was different because he always loved life and was so happy most of the time. Then at 59 he had a massive stroke that left him with brain damage and he asked God everyday to take him. It was sad because he lived 14 more years. My Mom kept him home and we bought the house next door so we could help. It was good for him because although not happy he got to see us and the kids everyday and interact with everyone.
I am sorry to hear that happened to your dad. Very tragic.

You mentioned you were happiest to have your kids launched and to not have to put the kids first. Why, may I ask, did you have kids if you would not and did not enjoy putting them first?