Your rant makes me think of one of my son's stories:
My son works in the restaurant industry. He's a server in a casual restaurant. One time he had to cut bread as a side job just before getting a table. He forgot to brush himself off. He went up to the table and and introduced himself, and in response to his polite introduction, the customer (who was with a friend) said to him, "You're disgusting!" My son said, "Excuse me?" She replied, "You're FILTHY!" He looked down and saw he had forgotten to brush crumbs off his black pants.
He said, politely, "I'm sorry, ma'am, if you would like I could get you a different server." She declined. His coworkers heard the exchange and all offered to take the table, but. my son said, "No, I can handle this." I have no idea what transpired over the course of that service with that customer, but when she left, she left him a $130 tip on an $80 bill. I was really proud that he took up the challenge to return hostility with kindness. BUT we had the same question: what makes people so MEAN????
Civility is out the window, and I agree--we baby boomers can sometimes act like a bunch of entitled children.
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I have never been mean to a fast food worker. I did that job in high school and it’s not fun.
Having been a waitress, I know what you mean, TT.
As Cicero said, “Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all the others.”
I had a middle aged man get mad because it shake was too thick. I warned him when he ordered it he couldn’t use a straw it was so thick. He still wanted it. Then he got furious and flung some of it at me with his straw and it got all over my smock. It was next to a bar and drunks would come to eat sometimes puking in the lobby or peeing their pants. A district manager liked to grap asses and I had to talk a old drunk out of raping me when I was cleaning the bathroom. Good times![]()
Well this is gross: i discovered I was brushing my teeth with the toothbrush I use for cleaning kitchen and bathroom fixtures.
since I have apparently been doing this for a couple of weeks, it didnt kill me. I am not dead.
The hygiene hypothesis is proven again!
Buy a electric toothbrush for your teeth)
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