That's what I figured on your friend who died. Vaccines work and in a post-vaccine world the rules of engagement with others should be different.
You and your social circle should ignore the media fear mongering and enjoy getting together. Too bad you are no longer going to restaurants. Unless someone has had chemo or something like that which would severely interfere with the vaccine's effectiveness you should be good.
On the other hand if people don't want to get vaccinated they should stay home and do curbside pickup of groceries etc.