Quote Originally Posted by Float On View Post
Do either of you have any intention of getting married? If not, then I'd say dates should be split.

My husband and I only had 3 dates before we got engaged, granted they were spread out over 3 months because I was living 6 hours away.
I just don't see the point of of a couple dating 2 or 3 or 15 years (as in the case of an uncle of mine).
Good question. She has never been married before. She is "older." So I am not sure if she is "over it" or not. She does not talk about it really. We almost never talk about the future. She brought up "the future" once, about 2 months into dating the first go round. I brought the future up a couple times, once I did mention nuptials but did not get into any detail. It was more just feeling it out to see what she was thinking. I brought up the future last weekend. The conversation did not go well...