SO NEVER wants to have people over. He is an introvert but his desire for no friends drives me nuts. I go out to meet with other people without him. I don't consider myself an extrovert but do require some contact with people and would like a few friends. Occasionally, he will say ok to having people over but ALWAYS finds something wrong with them. I don't think I am asking for too much. Just to go out eat once in a while with another couple and come back, and perhaps, play cards or a game. He is always personable to people but shows no desire to continue a friendship with anyone. He seems annoyed with me for trying to find compatible people. We are now retired and have time to get together with others. When we both were in the rat race it did not bother me as much. There was so much to do then and little time....