
Originally Posted by
Zoe Girl
My awakening experience came about 5 years ago. I had been raised in a bit of a bubble, my parents did not let racism in our house however they were pretty quiet about it. I didn't realize it until I was much older and heard people talking about hearing racist jokes and comments by adults and then wondered why I had not heard these things, ever. However we never talked about it. I took for granted that good people accepted gay kids and different colors and religions. I stepped up one step by talking about it with my kids but it was still a problem of somewhere else. I went to a training over several days on addressing the reading gap in boys of color and listened to people who were actively working with these kids more than I was, including families of color, and had to admit I was just not aware of what was happening. I started to look other places, reading what educators and especially those of color were saying. I think being able to integrate new information is very important right now. I would love to be wrong and think things are better, my neighborhood so far has not had racist graffiti or attacks, however I need to listen to Rob and others who are seeing this first hand. And thank you for addressing this and working with police when I know that is hard for you.
In some ways I wish I had been more aware of what was happening. I see now that in many ways my personal loneliness living in suburban Michigan was also the separation of my family from a lot of people because we did not accept things as normal. I see the simple acts of my parents in reaching out when the first black family moved in, the first hispanic family, the first Indian family and know now they lost friendships every time. They didn't whine or complain, but they also did what was right.