Quote Originally Posted by iris lilies View Post
Look, TMS, I am going to speak to you like your mother: you need to say “ No” to these tasks associated with the person you are supporting.
Just. Say. No.

It’s ok to do that. Really.

Trust me, I did to the medical supply house. Yesterday I sent a letter to his social worker where they asked me to do a welfare check, asking why the social worker isn't investigating his living situation (against doctor's orders), or asking the police to do a welfare check (since I was down on the list and didn't authorize my name being added).
I asked them where do I bill? If I discover the body, what am I to do, grab a glad bag? And explained he isn't the only one dying, so he can just get his ass back to work and relieve this dying guy. They will get the point.

And mom nurse is the one that now has cancer, along side me.