So, IL, why does the family want to keep it? I can't remember if anyone is into farming. Does it have any value for the family other than "daddy wants it?" Do people go there for recreation? Does anyone maintain the farm, or is it growing wild? Just curious, as I think about the possible pitfalls of leaving this tiny house to 4 children and 5 grandchildren. I have my own reasons for wanting to be like your DH's father, but I also don't want MY emotions to drive impractical decisions that have no relevance for my children and grandchildren.