I'm just wondering, Ultralite: if you imagine yourself in a long term committed relationship with your current partner, do you see this situation changing? How would you implement change after setting a precedent of being responsible for these expensive dates all through your courtship? Or will you always be 100% responsible for providing a social life that you feel you can't afford, and she can? Do you see the present as a test of your interest in commitment and your interest in her, or will you need to adjust your life forever to fit this new spending pattern? Are you ok with that?