So we're back to sexual gratification, are we?


Back before i met my husband, I was introduced to someone at a party with the idea that we might hit it off. He talked about his ex-girlfriend and her branching out to embrace her interests, I talked about simplicity and YMOYL and my fascination with living off grid with what I thought was cheerful enthusiasm, it was after all the philosophy behind where my whole life was headed, and after we'd been talking for a while, he scornfully said to me, "so it's all about The Life, isn't it." Ummm ... you say that like focusing on the life I want is a bad thing! Needless to say, we never did get together.