I work my arse off. I can't stand people who have no work ethic. If you're not disabled or sick, you have no reason to be unemployed. Coworker's daughter is lazy, coworker is enabling her, and I told her so. I don't coddle people. I kick arse.
women have done the not working to raise kids model for awhile. It's not entirely fair or right, but a lot of people will marry and let a man support them while they just raise kids (I have always been too proud to consider that frankly, it seems deeply wrong for the man to be the only one working outside the house - especially it seems unfair to the man - too much too shoulder alone). They'll say stuff like raising a kid is a job, but that has never been remotely plausible to me (it's effort, that is true, but it's not a job)