Quote Originally Posted by freshstart View Post
... it's the doing it because she is "paying back" back her dates. That doesn't sound like a positive way to approach sex, that it is a debt she is offering to pay. Unless that gets her off, too.
Not being a party to the conversation, I wouldn't leap to the conclusion that it was "payback", especially given the mutually satisfying (hopefully) activities she mentioned. More of a dessert course, really.

As to screening, I get screened every month or two just because I get exposed to all sorts of icky things at work, you never know. So don't assume an initial screening is the full solution :-(