The woman I mentioned was a former sex worker too. She stripped and such on camera for a website. So I don't think that "paying back" the guy was that big of an issue. She talked about it like it was a fun, though risky, pastime.

The two STDs she caught were incurables, though not deadly ones. If she had caught the clap a couples times I may have dated her because that is easily cured. But...

The thing that really rubbed me the wrong way about this woman was when she said: "I know you're looking for a long term relationship. I have known plenty of guys like you. And I still manage to convince them to get into the back seat with me."

It was like she did not take my romantic intentions seriously.

For the record too, I bought her spring roll and bowl of pho since it was a first date. haha

Also for the record, I don't think that all "sex-positive" people are like this. I dated a self-identified "sl*t" in graduate school. We had a lovely long term relationship, very intimate; I look back on it fondly. I certainly appreciated all the "knowledge" she brought to the relationship! lol